IMHO There is only one
quality .
Understanding. (or maybe acceptance fine line there)..
This sums it all up for me:
Understand that travel can be hard- you must laugh
Understand that communication is the only way for the other to know what you are thinking
Understand the other is human: - will have flaws/ will spit the dummy once in awhile/ will have needs you dont need to
Understand (just accept with in reason).
Understand when things go wrong or not your way you must..
- Understand what is wrong and fix it (e.g clutch) or
- Understand your dont understand and step back (e.g clutch) or
- Understand you wont always be able to fix it and you need help or
- Understand - cultures are different and things will be done differently, and you cant do nothing about it so deal calmly!
- Understand (in most cases) you are in the same boat so blame is not helpful.
Understand when to shut up or not to (many many situations)
Understand compromise/commitment.. you agreed to move early for the border run so do it.
Understand you are not alone so dont act like it.
Understand you are not on a tour so share decisions/responsibility for the bad ones
Understand that if did not help make a decision (and could have) you cant complain about.
Understand that hindsight is 20/20
Understand if there was no malintent there is no foul. (i.e. S#!t happens)
Understand that not getting stressed under pressure or when plans have to be changed is the only way.
Understand that even the closest couple needs time alone.
Understand the limits - theirs and yours and do not push either (too far)
Understand your are a team and teams don't do quid-pro-quo they do what is best for the team (even if that means leaving).
Understand that when i throw the stick it means get it, come back and give it to me! not that I should now chase you around only to get the stick and start again..(okay i understand that can be fun too). lets play!!