Hello Kipper,
we are two of the women who wrote about our experiences overland (Belgium to Pakistan) in Chris Scott's "AMH", so yes, we have done it and survived ;-)
We will also go back next year for 6 months, leaving beginning of April. We prefer the route in the opposite direction (B->India) though, as to get used to things 'slowly'.
We travelled without men (in 1999), the two of us on two bikes, and have had no problem. Not in Turkey, not in Iran and not in Pakistan.
Men and women alike in these three countries were very curious, friendly, and totally AMAZED to discover we really were women on bikes. We even received standing ovations in Iran by groups of women.
The further East you travel in Turkey, the more conservative. And some cities are more then others due the presence of shrines or other holy places. Konya and Erzurum for instance (though Erzurum featured a nice collection of Internetcafés and the very best restaurant we had on the whole of our journey!). In Turkey we saw women in thick chador's or even carpets, one eye peeping through, and covering up completely as we rode by (something we never saw in Iran by the way!).
In Turkey we dressed normally, but never in T-shirts or shorts, obviously (except on touristy coast resorts where you can problaby wear anything (or nothing??)).
Next, crossing into Iran is an experience of its own of course. It took us a week to start feeling at ease in our robes and scarfs (obliged by law). Much depends on the specific location and on the individual people. The differences between towns and villages (and/or between rich and poor) are huge: you might see Isphahani women barefoot in stylish sandals, bright scarfs covering only half of their hair, and coloured 'manteaus' just beneath their knees, whereas in a small country village you will only see shapeless black chador's with just a mouth, nose and eyes peeping out.
We found Iran more open (in a way) to women then Pakistan. In Iran, women drive cars, are doctors or lawyers, chat and talk lively, even to men sometimes (at a respectful distance), and most of all: you see just as many men as women in the streets, day and night. Not so in Pakistan: coming from the West, it took us 3 full days to see the first woman, and she was an Afghani refugee in burqa (totally closed piece of thin cloth down to the ground which is just transparant enough to see through; burqa's also exist with a gauze before the eyes). In Queta we saw, say, 5 women a day apart from the refugees, dressed in 'shalwar kameez'-for-women (long shirts over large trousers, in bright colours) like you often see in India and always with scarfs.
In Iran, we first dressed in manteau's with a scarf we bought in Turkey (as you need to dress up upon entering Iran). The coat was black, synthetic, with lining and even had shoulder fillings. Underneath we wore our Dainese protectorvests, a combination which made us look like the Hulk.
Since it was late April, and we were riding for a week on plateau's, the heat was more or less o.k. Further East though, we bought thin pale-coloured coton coats with buttons, and muslim scarfs like the schoolgirls wear: basically a piece of cotton cloth falling over your shoulders, with a hole for your face. We found this more practical then scarfs which tend to fall off as you take off your helmet (yes, we did wear this under our helmets).
The rich women found us slightly overdressed, but as we often travelled through small villages, we felt more at ease this way.
The robes got dirty quickly with "motorbike stains" as you can imagine, but at least they didn't get burned from the exhausts as the Turkish 'manteau's'. Working on the bikes was annoying because you can't roll up your sleeves - we will sew some velcro on them for next year. Also annoying was the heat in these things and not being able to "take of your coat" when eating in a restaurant for instance.
Inside their home however, Iranians do take off their coats and scarfs, and wander about in tiny T-shirts and skirts.
In general, we just look around and more or less adapt to what we see.
Nicky, who wrote long chapters in the AMH about women on bikes, came from India and wore the Pakistani female 'shalwar kameez' for her entire trip through Iran.
In Pakistan, we went back to normal clothes: light trousers and wide shirts.
Here again we noticed the huge difference between cities and countryside. In Islamabad, we saw some of the hippest women we ever saw in muslim countries. But outside, we never saw 1 woman driving a car, nor even bicycles. We just saw very few women on the streets.
All this said and done, even men can't wear whatever they like: it's not proper to wear T-shirts in the streets, let alone shorts.
O, and do not shake hands with ANY men, guides, friends... It is really not done, not even in big cities or amongst foreigners.
Then, another problem you might encounter is getting a visa. As women travelling without men, getting a visa is not straightforward. We had to go via an agency in Holland because not one Belgain woman we know of has been able to get a visa travelling by herself. They don't ask for your means of transport. Once you have the visa, getting in and out is easy.
But visa's depend on your nationality, the country where you apply for one, etc. The Lonely Planet site should have answers to that.
Other issue to deal with is the 'Carnet de Passage en Douane', the import/export file for your bike. Sure you'll find the necessary data for that elsewhere on this site.
So. Hope this already takes away a bit of the mystery.
If you need other questions to be answered, don't hesitate to contact us.
You will have a remarkable unique experience for sure. Travelling as a woman alone through muslim countries opens up doors which otherwise remain firmly shut.
Happy biking,
Iris and Trui
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[This message has been edited by Grant Johnson (edited 27 January 2002).]