Hi Jimbofett and welcome,
I can't help you with the dvds and it would help to at least know what country you are in, we are a pretty international bunch here.
I would suggest if you find yourself in the vacinity of a talk by one of the women travellers on this forum to get your wife and yourself along to it, this might require you going to a hu meeting or mini meet somewhere which is a good place to start planning a trip anyway. 
Mark
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