Like the title says - been truly agonizing over her next bike. Takaya (TK) has spent last 2 years on Super Sherpa cutting her teeth, rode 5 weeks 7000 kms to Yukon/Alaska this summer and she loved it, but we both agree some more oomph is desired. Thinking about 6 months to South America next year but and we also subscribe to the idea that lighter/offroad capable. I am 6'2" on a f800gs and am thinking about downsizing also - the idea of both our bikes being compatible is very appealing. I am 6'2" on a f800gs but am also thinking about downsizing.

Some considerations are:
We very much would like to embrace challenging terrain, not suffer through it.
Affordability is important but would spend the bucks if there is a clear reason (think Carnets)
Durability very important
Ability to run heated gear for TK

Current top 2 options

DRZ400SM - as it has lower suspension than S model, add lowered seat and link to get it close to where she needs. More dirt biased and lighter, but small stator (321 lbs wet) (Either a DRZ for me or DR650)

BMW X Country 2009 has lower seat, surprising lightweight (344 lbs wet) but wonder that it is out of production and parts etc more difficult to source. Seems more 'distance' biased - wonder how it goes off road. (Either I keep my f800 or look for an X-Challenge).

Other bikes I have looked at:

BMW F700/G650GS/Sertao - too heavy

KTM 690 - Dream bike for me - but this is not about me (entirely...dare to dream....

WR250R - Too tall, like fuel injection

KLX 250/CRF250L/XT250 - seem underpowered

CCM GP450 - Looks freakishly perfect really but too bloody rich/new

Anyways - wish I was getting paid for the amount of time I am spending on this agonizing decision and really want to get past it and focus on making the trip happen. I know, I know - the bike you ride is the right bike. My brain works in funny ways, once I get past this I can move onto other fun stuff. I would very much appreciate comments from folks who have been through the same process. Thanks and I look forward to some of your thoughts and comments.