How do you do this? (I'm over 60)

I have looked on dating sites and found plenty of women who say they are a traveler, that they are adventurous. I find that traveling for them is cruises and tours and at least 4 star accommodation. Adventurous is doing those things alone or with one other woman.
It seems (and women have told me this) that once a woman reaches 60, she wants to have a comfortable life and indulge in all the things that "normal" people do. One of the most important "normal" things is a nice modern toilet.


So, you might suggest, find a younger woman traveler that is more interested in the adventure than the toilet. My question is how, where? These wonderous people are like needles; the ones that are in haystacks!


I am not a motorcyclist. I have a camping truck, a Russian Army one that is more practical than luxurious. Go anywhere, heated, comfortable, maybe a little noisy. For the last two years I have been searching to no avail. Obviously I haven't been looking in the right places.
I have had more experience traveling on tracks and off-road than most people on this planet so I'm pretty safe to be with but! How and where do you find a woman who is not afraid of this kind of life? Not only not afraid but likes it? Great overlanding experiences shared more than doubles the pleasure. A.